You probably feel super powerful right now, but actually, you just look more immature so I’m not complaining. (: However, I know he’s not my boyfriend anymore, but it will always bother me that you use him, and that you will continue to try and use him. Have a nice life, user.

Hello beautiful, I worry about you quite often. What happened to you? Backing on your word, doing things you never said you would do. Something came over you that made you completely disregard almost everything you have ever stood for. I don’t know why this happened, but it did. You’ve changed. People change, I understand that. People grow, mature, make mistakes, and learn from them, but the difference between making a mistake and making a mistake is the reasons for making that mistake. Peer pressure is a common reason people back down on their word, along with the need to be loved, cherished, accepted, etc. Some people even change in order to escape the memory of bitter past experiences that continuously haunt them. I don’t know your reason, beautiful. However, I can only hope that you’re making decisions for the right reasons. Everyone who has a crucial decision to make, don’t do it for the boy (or girl or any type of significant other for that matter). Don’t do it for your friends. Don’t do it for your parents, co-workers, or anyone else. Do it for yourself. No matter what, make sure this decision is 100% yours. Don’t degrade yourself to appear to other people. Don’t throw it all away because you feel like you have something to prove.

Hello beautiful, you already know my opinion. You know I don’t approve of what you’re doing, but I know that I can’t control you. I can give you my advice and hope it impacts you, but I can never make your decisions for you. Beautiful, you’re my best friend and I trust you with my life. Sometimes, I wish we could go back to the way things were, before college took over our lives, and before the pressure to fit in was so evident. Just do me one favor:

Whatever decision you make, make sure it is your own decision. If that decision turns out to be a mistake, make it a mistake from a personal decision, and not a decision heavily influenced by anyone else.

In the longrun, it became a blessing in disguise that he never came back.

thingsmusicalstaughtme:

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thespianproblems:

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none. ever. thanks for asking. lol

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